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你顾及一切，谁来顾及你？

你顾及一切，谁来顾及你？
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生活中 ， 你是不是总是 ，
习惯照顾所有人的感受 ，
很多事都委曲求全；
相处中 ， 你是不是 ，
总是习惯以别人为重 ，
将自己的感受放在最后 。
世界是残酷的 ，
付出有时换不来等同的回应 ，
即使你顾及了一切 ，
也换不来别人的一丝回报 。
现在社会很复杂 ，
人心隔着肚皮 ，
很多人为了一己私欲 ，
不顾别人的死活 ，
也有人为了自己的利益 ，
不惜出卖别人的真心 。
可是你却怀揣着一颗赤子之心 ，
考虑到所有人的感受 ，
总是委曲求全 ，
最后顾及了一切 ，
唯独没人来顾及你 。
Educationrejuvenatesthecountry,orscienceandtechnologyrejuvenatesthecountry,oreducationrejuvenatesthecountry,oreducationrejuvenatesthecountrywithtalentedpeopleandsoon,butallcannotdowithouteducation.Obviously,howimportanteducationisinacountry'sconstructionandrejuvenationisabsolutelyauniversaltruth.
However,whatisChina'seducationlike?Iamnotanexpertorscholar.Ofcourse,thepurposeofthisarticleisnottodiscussthewholepictureofeducation.IjustwanttomakeasmallcomparisonbetweenChineseandwesterneducationandlookfortheclueofrejuvenatingthecountry.
TherearemanycharacteristicsanddifferencesbetweenChineseandwesterneducation,ofcourse,therearealsosomesimilaritiesordifferences,becauseeducation,afterall,startswithchildrenandmusthavesomecommonalities.However,thedifferencesbetweenChineseandwesterneducationarestillmajor.Perhapsthemoststrikingoneis:
China'seducationattachesimportancetorationalityandevenpropriety,whilewesterneducationattachesimportancetoindividualityandeventonature,sothegaparises.Idescribeitas"goatsexeducation"forChineseeducation,and"wolfsexeducation"forwesterneducation(wolfsexcultureseemstobeveryfashionableinenterpriseconstructioninrecentyears).AlthoughthisanalogyisnotappropriateandIdonotappreciateit,let'suseitasavividbridgetounderstandtheproblem.Becauseofthecharacteristicsofsheepandwolf,therelationshipbetweensheepandwolfistoosimpleandclear,sothereisnoneedtosaymore.JustthinkaboutthestoryofWolfandLamb,whichhasbeendeeplyrootedinpeople'sheartssincechildhood.
WhyisitsaidthatChineseeducationislike"sheep'snature"becausetheChinesepeoplehavebeendeeplyeducated,nurturedandinfluencedbytraditionalConfucianculturesincechildhood.Theyspeakofbenevolence,righteousness,propriety,wisdomandfaith,cultivateone'smoralityandnurtureone'snature,andevengoalongwithit.Itisimpossibletotalkabouthowtowintheheartsofthepeopleorevenhowtorulethepeoplewithouthumannatureeducationorresistanceeducation.Therefore,nomatterhowmanypeoplethereare,mostofthemhavebecomegoodcitizens,obedientcitizensandevenslaves.LookingattheclassicworksinheritedfromChina,onecanseeataglance:TaoTeChing,AnalectsofConfucius,BookofChanges,University,DoctrineoftheMean,ZengGuofan'sFamilyLettersandsoon,allofwhicharebasicallypoems,books,ritesandmusic,anddealingwithpeople.Onecanseethisbythinkingabouttheworshipof"rarestupidity"whichisregardedasamottobymanypeopleinChina.Althoughmanyscholarsandevenhigh-rankingofficialsandelitesregarditasifitwereafool,therearefewpeoplewhocanreallybeafool.I'mafraidmostofthemhavereallywastedtheirlivesinamuddle.(ArticleReadingNetwork:www.sanwen.net)
However,westerneducationseemstobe"wolf-like"becauseitemphasizesmoreonindividuality,subjectivity,resistanceconsciousness,masterconsciousness,autonomyandevenaggressiveness,whichiscompletelyoppositetoChina.Therefore,westerncountrieshavearichhistoryofaggression,whileeasterncountriessuchasChinahavemorehistoryofaggression.Lookingattheclassicsofwesternclassics,onecanseeataglance:utopia,thespiritoflaw,theoriginofspecies,thetheoryofhumannature,evenincludingthetheoryofwar,mystruggle,andsoon.ofcourse,therearealsothebible,capital,thecommunistmanifesto,andsoon,whicharequitedifferentfromChineseculture.
Peoplewhogrewupunderthiskindof"goatsex"educationdidnotseemuchdifferenceduringthecivilwar.Evensheepbecamewolves.However,oncethereisawarwithwesterncountries,itwillbeclearthattheproblemarises:sheeporsheep,wolforwolf.Howcansheepbeatwolves?Eveniftherearemoresheep,theyarealsothefoodofwolves.Whyaretheycalledlambstobeslaughtered?TheyaretheproductsofChineseeducation.However,sheepwillnotbesheepforever,orsheepeatenbywolveswillnotbesheepagainaftertheyareregenerated.
Havingexperiencedtoomanywarlessonsinsteadofbookeducation,theChinesehaveawakenedandcanneitherbewolvesnorsheep.IftheChinesewanttobedragons,theycanbesaidtobe"gods"thatnoanimalcandefeat.Itisneitherasferociousasawolfnorassubmissiveasasheep.Itisfreetoflyintotheseaandissuperiortotheothers.Flyingapsarascansoarandswimintothesea,becomingtheonly"orientaldragon"intheworld.Thinkaboutit,whatwouldhappenifitwere1.4billionsheepandwhatwouldhappenifitwere14dragons?
However,thestrangephenomenonisthateducationinChinais"goat-like",butitisonlyaimedatchildren,andeducatorsareoften"wolf-like",includingchildren'sparentsandteachers.aretherenotsomesuccessfuleducationcasesof"tigerparents"?However,westerneducationis"wolf-like"andalsoaimedatchildren.instead,educatorsareoften"sheep-like",orflexibleandequal.evenwhenchildrenaretreated,theyaretreatedlikeadultswithequaldemocracyandrespectforhumannatureandnature.
Infact,Chineseeducationisfarfromsimple"goatsex"education.Startingfrom"sageConfucius",formorethan2,000years,Chineseeducationcanbesaidtoberichandprofound,absolutelynoworsethanwesterneducation,andevenmuchhigher.Allwesterneducationconceptsarenotuncommonintheeducationsystemofourancestors.Otherwise,howcansomany"magnificent"nationalheroesbecultivated,andhowcansomany"better-than-strolling"outstandingChinesechildrenbeborn?Itisbecauseourdescendantscannotthoroughlystudytheeducationmethodsandideologicalessenceofourancestors,andthemethodsareimproper.Itcanevenbesaidthatoureducationistheresultofaseriousmistakeof"imitatingothersfromtheeast".Wewanttolearnfromthewestbuthavenotlearnedtheessence.Onthecontrary,wehavelostourownexcellentthings.Neitherfishnorfowlisoftenhysterical.Wehaveturnedgoodchildreninto"fourdifferentimages"ofChina,thewestandtheeast.Thisisthebiggestfailureandthebiggestsorrow.Fortunately,manypeopleofinsighthavegraduallycometotheirsensesandarereturningtotherightpathbitbybit.
Infact,bothChinese-styleeducationandwestern-styleeducationhavebothadvantagesanddisadvantages,withbothadvantagesanddisadvantages.Thewisesteducatorshouldlearnfromeachother'sstrongpointstomakeupfordeficienciesandeliminatedisadvantages.Sucheducationisagreatblessingforchildrenandagreatblessingforthefuture.
Thisraisesaseriousquestion:whatisthemostimportantthinginnationaleducationandwhatisthemostimportantthinginmasterconsciousnesseducation,thatis,tobeagoodmasterinsteadofwaitingtobeaslave.Thenthereishistoryeducation(anotherarticle).Ifyoudon'tknowandrememberthehistoryofthemotherland,thetragedywillberepeatedagainandagain.Culture,knowledge,science,technologyandsoonareallimportant,butnomatterwhat,itismostimportanttohavenosenseofownership,becauseifonelosesthesenseofownership,thecountrywilllosethecountryandthepeoplewilllosethepeople,whichwillbetheobjectofinsultanddamage.Masterconsciousnessisnotonlymanifestedinthenationaleconomyandpeople'slivelihood,butalsoontheinternationalstage.
SomeoneoncesaidthatChinaisalionwakingupintheeast.IwanttosaythatChinaisasoaringorientaldragon,flyingintotheseaandfree.Historyiswealth,pleasedon'tregard5000yearsas70yearsold.Chinaistheonlycountryintheworldthatcanandshouldbeabletocombinegreatnessandstrength.
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Thatyear,Iwassittingbehindyourbicyclewiththewindblowinginmyear,detailingyourpromisetome.Ismiledandsleptonyourshoulder.
Inearlysummer,yoursmileisliketearingsunshine,dazzlinganddazzling.Inyourangelicface,Ilostmysight.ThegardeniabehindmemeltedyourpurewhiteshirtintothatpieceofXueHai.Youtookoffagardeniaandhandedittome.Idarenotstretchoutmyhandtopickitup.Yousmiledandsaid,nicetomeetyou.Fromnowon,Iwillprotectyou.
Yourwordsandthefragranceofgardeniaspreadaround.Ilookedupandsawyoureyes,brightandwarm.Atthatmoment,Ifeltthefall.
Fromthenon,wewereinseparable.Whenitwasbusy,Iwatchedyoulaughandlaughinthecrowdandsweatprofuselyonthecourt.Whenitisquiet,youcanuseasinglecartocrosstheseaofflowersorsitunderatreefullofgreenshadeandlistentotheflowers.
Youknowwhat?Whenyourescuedmefromthatgroupofpeoplewhowerecarriedawaybyjealousy;Whenyouwalkedthelongmountainroadbehindmyback;Whenyoufetchwaterformeandgivemegifts;Whenyouletmesitbehindyourbicycle,whichwillnevercarrypeople.ThesearegreathappinessthatIstillcannotbelieve.
Oneday,Iaskedyouwhyyouknewmeatthebeginning.YousaidthatwhenIfirstsawyou,Iwantedtoprotectyou.Iraisedmymouthandsmiledproudly.
Whengardeniasbloomagain,yousingunderthetreewithgentleandsadvoice.Forthefirsttimeinyoureyes,Isawsomethingotherthanhappiness.Iknow,yoursongisforagirl,that'snotme.
Gardeniaswereunbridledanddefeatedbehindme.Youdidn'tseethedimlookinmyeyes.
Theseasonsaredryandtheflowersbloominspring.
Youarestillsingingaffectionatesongs,andIamstillthewronglistener.
Wejointlydeduceastorythatisnotastory.
Whenthelastgardeniawitheredthatyear,yousuddenlyaskedmewhatyouwoulddoifIleft.Isaid,Iwillwaitforyoutocomeback.
Yousmiled,thesmilewasfullofheavymist.
Youputyourhandonmyheadandsaid,girl,youdon'thavetowait.
Isawthedeterminationinyoureyes.
Iknow,everythinghasbeenirreparable.
Soonafter,youleft.Withyoursadness,Iwenttotheplaceinmydream,theworldIwillneverreach.
Attheairport,yourwhiteshirtstilllooksgood.Theblackbackpackishungonyourshoulder,blackandwhite.Withsomekindofpersistence,Iwillnotdiewithoutregret.
Yousmiledagain,asunnysmile.Eyes,toodeeptoseebottom.
ButIcanclearlyseethatthereisareflectionofmyface,desolateandbeautiful.
Yousaidtomewithpityandworry,girl,youknow,don'twaitforme.Ishookmyheaddesperately,tearstricklingdown.
Youwipedmytearsandsaid,girl,behappy,behappy.Thisismylastblessingtoyou,beobedient!
Saythatfinish,youalsodon'tbacktogo.Iheardthesoundofmyheartbeingtornapart.Thegreatpaincouldnotberelieved.Icriedforalongtimeandshedtearsfromnowon.
Youjustdisappearedfrommyworld,youmadeallmybeautifuldreamsbreaklikeglass.Iamcrazyaboutyournews,butnooneknowswhereyouwent.
Youcametomeinsummerandleftinsummer.Justlikethewind,itpassedanddisappeared.
ButIcan'tgobacktotheorigin.
Idon'trememberhowmanytimesgardeniasopenedafteryouleft.Idon'tknowwhichoneyoupickedforme.Ican'tdowhatyousay.Withoutyou,howcanIbehappy?Thisseaofflowersisstillasbeautifulasitwasatthebeginning,onlywithoutyoursmile.
Andthegirlwaitingforherlovertoreturnunderthetree.
懂事的人 ， 最让人心疼 。
从小到大 ，
你都是最会照顾别人情绪的人 ，
无论是在朋友相处中 ，
还是在大家庭中 ，
你总是那个最懂事的存在 。
所有的一切都不争不抢 ，
承受的委屈都独自消化 ，
即使自己再委屈也不去辩解 ，
生怕别人生气 。
Educationrejuvenatesthecountry,orscienceandtechnologyrejuvenatesthecountry,oreducationrejuvenatesthecountry,oreducationrejuvenatesthecountrywithtalentedpeopleandsoon,butallcannotdowithouteducation.Obviously,howimportanteducationisinacountry'sconstructionandrejuvenationisabsolutelyauniversaltruth.
However,whatisChina'seducationlike?Iamnotanexpertorscholar.Ofcourse,thepurposeofthisarticleisnottodiscussthewholepictureofeducation.IjustwanttomakeasmallcomparisonbetweenChineseandwesterneducationandlookfortheclueofrejuvenatingthecountry.
TherearemanycharacteristicsanddifferencesbetweenChineseandwesterneducation,ofcourse,therearealsosomesimilaritiesordifferences,becauseeducation,afterall,startswithchildrenandmusthavesomecommonalities.However,thedifferencesbetweenChineseandwesterneducationarestillmajor.Perhapsthemoststrikingoneis:
China'seducationattachesimportancetorationalityandevenpropriety,whilewesterneducationattachesimportancetoindividualityandeventonature,sothegaparises.Idescribeitas"goatsexeducation"forChineseeducation,and"wolfsexeducation"forwesterneducation(wolfsexcultureseemstobeveryfashionableinenterpriseconstructioninrecentyears).AlthoughthisanalogyisnotappropriateandIdonotappreciateit,let'suseitasavividbridgetounderstandtheproblem.Becauseofthecharacteristicsofsheepandwolf,therelationshipbetweensheepandwolfistoosimpleandclear,sothereisnoneedtosaymore.JustthinkaboutthestoryofWolfandLamb,whichhasbeendeeplyrootedinpeople'sheartssincechildhood.
WhyisitsaidthatChineseeducationislike"sheep'snature"becausetheChinesepeoplehavebeendeeplyeducated,nurturedandinfluencedbytraditionalConfucianculturesincechildhood.Theyspeakofbenevolence,righteousness,propriety,wisdomandfaith,cultivateone'smoralityandnurtureone'snature,andevengoalongwithit.Itisimpossibletotalkabouthowtowintheheartsofthepeopleorevenhowtorulethepeoplewithouthumannatureeducationorresistanceeducation.Therefore,nomatterhowmanypeoplethereare,mostofthemhavebecomegoodcitizens,obedientcitizensandevenslaves.LookingattheclassicworksinheritedfromChina,onecanseeataglance:TaoTeChing,AnalectsofConfucius,BookofChanges,University,DoctrineoftheMean,ZengGuofan'sFamilyLettersandsoon,allofwhicharebasicallypoems,books,ritesandmusic,anddealingwithpeople.Onecanseethisbythinkingabouttheworshipof"rarestupidity"whichisregardedasamottobymanypeopleinChina.Althoughmanyscholarsandevenhigh-rankingofficialsandelitesregarditasifitwereafool,therearefewpeoplewhocanreallybeafool.I'mafraidmostofthemhavereallywastedtheirlivesinamuddle.(ArticleReadingNetwork:www.sanwen.net)
However,westerneducationseemstobe"wolf-like"becauseitemphasizesmoreonindividuality,subjectivity,resistanceconsciousness,masterconsciousness,autonomyandevenaggressiveness,whichiscompletelyoppositetoChina.Therefore,westerncountrieshavearichhistoryofaggression,whileeasterncountriessuchasChinahavemorehistoryofaggression.Lookingattheclassicsofwesternclassics,onecanseeataglance:utopia,thespiritoflaw,theoriginofspecies,thetheoryofhumannature,evenincludingthetheoryofwar,mystruggle,andsoon.ofcourse,therearealsothebible,capital,thecommunistmanifesto,andsoon,whicharequitedifferentfromChineseculture.
Peoplewhogrewupunderthiskindof"goatsex"educationdidnotseemuchdifferenceduringthecivilwar.Evensheepbecamewolves.However,oncethereisawarwithwesterncountries,itwillbeclearthattheproblemarises:sheeporsheep,wolforwolf.Howcansheepbeatwolves?Eveniftherearemoresheep,theyarealsothefoodofwolves.Whyaretheycalledlambstobeslaughtered?TheyaretheproductsofChineseeducation.However,sheepwillnotbesheepforever,orsheepeatenbywolveswillnotbesheepagainaftertheyareregenerated.
Havingexperiencedtoomanywarlessonsinsteadofbookeducation,theChinesehaveawakenedandcanneitherbewolvesnorsheep.IftheChinesewanttobedragons,theycanbesaidtobe"gods"thatnoanimalcandefeat.Itisneitherasferociousasawolfnorassubmissiveasasheep.Itisfreetoflyintotheseaandissuperiortotheothers.Flyingapsarascansoarandswimintothesea,becomingtheonly"orientaldragon"intheworld.Thinkaboutit,whatwouldhappenifitwere1.4billionsheepandwhatwouldhappenifitwere14dragons?
However,thestrangephenomenonisthateducationinChinais"goat-like",butitisonlyaimedatchildren,andeducatorsareoften"wolf-like",includingchildren'sparentsandteachers.aretherenotsomesuccessfuleducationcasesof"tigerparents"?However,westerneducationis"wolf-like"andalsoaimedatchildren.instead,educatorsareoften"sheep-like",orflexibleandequal.evenwhenchildrenaretreated,theyaretreatedlikeadultswithequaldemocracyandrespectforhumannatureandnature.
Infact,Chineseeducationisfarfromsimple"goatsex"education.Startingfrom"sageConfucius",formorethan2,000years,Chineseeducationcanbesaidtoberichandprofound,absolutelynoworsethanwesterneducation,andevenmuchhigher.Allwesterneducationconceptsarenotuncommonintheeducationsystemofourancestors.Otherwise,howcansomany"magnificent"nationalheroesbecultivated,andhowcansomany"better-than-strolling"outstandingChinesechildrenbeborn?Itisbecauseourdescendantscannotthoroughlystudytheeducationmethodsandideologicalessenceofourancestors,andthemethodsareimproper.Itcanevenbesaidthatoureducationistheresultofaseriousmistakeof"imitatingothersfromtheeast".Wewanttolearnfromthewestbuthavenotlearnedtheessence.Onthecontrary,wehavelostourownexcellentthings.Neitherfishnorfowlisoftenhysterical.Wehaveturnedgoodchildreninto"fourdifferentimages"ofChina,thewestandtheeast.Thisisthebiggestfailureandthebiggestsorrow.Fortunately,manypeopleofinsighthavegraduallycometotheirsensesandarereturningtotherightpathbitbybit.
Infact,bothChinese-styleeducationandwestern-styleeducationhavebothadvantagesanddisadvantages,withbothadvantagesanddisadvantages.Thewisesteducatorshouldlearnfromeachother'sstrongpointstomakeupfordeficienciesandeliminatedisadvantages.Sucheducationisagreatblessingforchildrenandagreatblessingforthefuture.
Thisraisesaseriousquestion:whatisthemostimportantthinginnationaleducationandwhatisthemostimportantthinginmasterconsciousnesseducation,thatis,tobeagoodmasterinsteadofwaitingtobeaslave.Thenthereishistoryeducation(anotherarticle).Ifyoudon'tknowandrememberthehistoryofthemotherland,thetragedywillberepeatedagainandagain.Culture,knowledge,science,technologyandsoonareallimportant,butnomatterwhat,itismostimportanttohavenosenseofownership,becauseifonelosesthesenseofownership,thecountrywilllosethecountryandthepeoplewilllosethepeople,whichwillbetheobjectofinsultanddamage.Masterconsciousnessisnotonlymanifestedinthenationaleconomyandpeople'slivelihood,butalsoontheinternationalstage.
SomeoneoncesaidthatChinaisalionwakingupintheeast.IwanttosaythatChinaisasoaringorientaldragon,flyingintotheseaandfree.Historyiswealth,pleasedon'tregard5000yearsas70yearsold.Chinaistheonlycountryintheworldthatcanandshouldbeabletocombinegreatnessandstrength.
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Thatyear,Iwassittingbehindyourbicyclewiththewindblowinginmyear,detailingyourpromisetome.Ismiledandsleptonyourshoulder.
Inearlysummer,yoursmileisliketearingsunshine,dazzlinganddazzling.Inyourangelicface,Ilostmysight.ThegardeniabehindmemeltedyourpurewhiteshirtintothatpieceofXueHai.Youtookoffagardeniaandhandedittome.Idarenotstretchoutmyhandtopickitup.Yousmiledandsaid,nicetomeetyou.Fromnowon,Iwillprotectyou.
Yourwordsandthefragranceofgardeniaspreadaround.Ilookedupandsawyoureyes,brightandwarm.Atthatmoment,Ifeltthefall.
Fromthenon,wewereinseparable.Whenitwasbusy,Iwatchedyoulaughandlaughinthecrowdandsweatprofuselyonthecourt.Whenitisquiet,youcanuseasinglecartocrosstheseaofflowersorsitunderatreefullofgreenshadeandlistentotheflowers.
Youknowwhat?Whenyourescuedmefromthatgroupofpeoplewhowerecarriedawaybyjealousy;Whenyouwalkedthelongmountainroadbehindmyback;Whenyoufetchwaterformeandgivemegifts;Whenyouletmesitbehindyourbicycle,whichwillnevercarrypeople.ThesearegreathappinessthatIstillcannotbelieve.
Oneday,Iaskedyouwhyyouknewmeatthebeginning.YousaidthatwhenIfirstsawyou,Iwantedtoprotectyou.Iraisedmymouthandsmiledproudly.
Whengardeniasbloomagain,yousingunderthetreewithgentleandsadvoice.Forthefirsttimeinyoureyes,Isawsomethingotherthanhappiness.Iknow,yoursongisforagirl,that'snotme.
Gardeniaswereunbridledanddefeatedbehindme.Youdidn'tseethedimlookinmyeyes.
Theseasonsaredryandtheflowersbloominspring.
Youarestillsingingaffectionatesongs,andIamstillthewronglistener.
Wejointlydeduceastorythatisnotastory.
Whenthelastgardeniawitheredthatyear,yousuddenlyaskedmewhatyouwoulddoifIleft.Isaid,Iwillwaitforyoutocomeback.
Yousmiled,thesmilewasfullofheavymist.
Youputyourhandonmyheadandsaid,girl,youdon'thavetowait.
Isawthedeterminationinyoureyes.
Iknow,everythinghasbeenirreparable.
Soonafter,youleft.Withyoursadness,Iwenttotheplaceinmydream,theworldIwillneverreach.
Attheairport,yourwhiteshirtstilllooksgood.Theblackbackpackishungonyourshoulder,blackandwhite.Withsomekindofpersistence,Iwillnotdiewithoutregret.
Yousmiledagain,asunnysmile.Eyes,toodeeptoseebottom.
ButIcanclearlyseethatthereisareflectionofmyface,desolateandbeautiful.
Yousaidtomewithpityandworry,girl,youknow,don'twaitforme.Ishookmyheaddesperately,tearstricklingdown.
Youwipedmytearsandsaid,girl,behappy,behappy.Thisismylastblessingtoyou,beobedient!
Saythatfinish,youalsodon'tbacktogo.Iheardthesoundofmyheartbeingtornapart.Thegreatpaincouldnotberelieved.Icriedforalongtimeandshedtearsfromnowon.
Youjustdisappearedfrommyworld,youmadeallmybeautifuldreamsbreaklikeglass.Iamcrazyaboutyournews,butnooneknowswhereyouwent.
Youcametomeinsummerandleftinsummer.Justlikethewind,itpassedanddisappeared.
ButIcan'tgobacktotheorigin.
Idon'trememberhowmanytimesgardeniasopenedafteryouleft.Idon'tknowwhichoneyoupickedforme.Ican'tdowhatyousay.Withoutyou,howcanIbehappy?Thisseaofflowersisstillasbeautifulasitwasatthebeginning,onlywithoutyoursmile.
Andthegirlwaitingforherlovertoreturnunderthetree.
周围的人面临困难时 ，
你立刻伸出援助之手 ，
朋友处在困境之中时 ，
你比任何人都着急 ，
家人拜托你帮忙时 ，
你比任何时候都上心 。
你总以为所有人都会看见你的付出 ，
可是当你寻求帮助的时候 ，
才发现自己身后空无一人 。
佛说：真正的慈悲 ，
是你将美好的生命绽放出来 ，
而不是枯萎的自己牺牲出去 。
生而为人 ， 谁都是第一次 ，
谁也不亏欠谁 ，
没必要委屈自己 。
心太软就是递给别人的刀 ，
最后扎在自己的身上 ，
与其对别人心软 ，
不如对自己慈悲一次 。
无法重来的一生 ，
唯有自己最重要 。
每个人的生命 ，
都只有一次 ，
不要将一些不必要的人请进自己的生命中 ，
更不要将真心浪费给不值得的人 。
往后余生 ， 愿你好好照顾自己 ，
做自己最坚强的后盾 ，
去拥抱人生的美好 。
你开心 ， 全世界都可以陪你笑 ，
你难过 ， 就只有自己哭 ，
在这个薄凉的世界上 ，
你能依靠的只有自己 。
余生很贵 ， 无论发生什么事 ，
都要先爱自己 ，
然后再去照顾别人 ，
余生不长 ， 对自己好一点 ，
【你顾及一切，谁来顾及你？】别太善良 ， 别太逞强！


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